Special Reminder for Women being harassed

Special Reminder for Women being harassed

As showed in below picture, the harasser created a heart shape with tree tops outside my balcony about 3 years ago.  Right now, it's a little faded away but still clearly visible. 

When I first saw it, I was like "what the heck! You've beaten me almost to death everyday, yet you have the boldness to say how much you like me (despite the fact that monster is a total stranger)?!" Plus every store I went to, there are always love songs playing in the store to express how much that monster like me. Moreover, think about the power behind all these manipulations. How many people in the world have the power to do these?

I didn't know at the time it's an abusive tactic for women until I watch a movie or documentary about abusive families. I've never known of or close to any abusive person or families before, this type of tactic totally disgusts me. If I wrote out detail of my story later, you will find out the monster uses a so call "Hot and Cold" method too. Luckily, I grew up healthily and naturally don't buy into those BS for women. It's simple as it is, anyone doesn't treat you well don't even like you, less say the L words.

Another thing about harassment is they are looking for "engagement", so it's important for women to stay cold, distance and focus on your own things if you can. There are all kind of acts playing out to make you "emotional" to "engage" you.