My Story - 2 - Why me?

Why me?

At first, I simply thought it's about sex. 

As I mentioned, the harasser stalked me from Linkedin much earlier about 5 years ago and I ignored him. Afterwards, I didn't put much thinking into it as the harasser was married and thousands miles away in the west coast of U.S, while I am in Toronto Canada.  It had never came to my mind that I would be harassed because of the refusal. However, things were getting weird and weirder in my work and life. I won't get into details for now because I could have written a book about my whole experience but it takes time. 

Anyway, in early 2020, it became clear to me that I was under all kinds of harassments, such as surveillance, stalking, noises, constant interruption, hacking devices etc. 

After reading some books regarding harassments and #metoo movement, I still have some doubts about why these women said it's about power because I have no power at all. What makes the harasser feel good about overpowering a woman without power? 

Now, after 3 years intense harassment and attacks, I totally agree with most other women say, it's about power as he didn't make very clear demand. 

From the 3 years watching how the harasser intensely manipulated the world, I totally agree and understand why it's about power. The thrill of hunting is in exercising that power.